I’ve decided to take advantage of Facebook Live and offer an opportunity for people to get their questions answered by me personally. The first Live video was a success! The recording is available below. Here are a few of the questions that were answered during the session: “What can the betrayed wife do about the […]
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You want a deeper emotional connection, more intimacy in your marriage – to feel loved, appreciated, valued, acknowledged, understood and more. But, here’s the problem: 1. You run into a brick wall when you begin to talk about your desire for a deeper emotional connection with your spouse. Yes, there are some gender differences. Most
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Do you ever give that question some thought? How do you know if you married the right person? Your relationship is in the pits and you want to know how to fix your marriage fast. You snarl inside when your spouse does “their thing” and the thought jumps across your inner cortex, “What in the
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Why did you marry your spouse? I assume you’ve asked that question, especially if you have one of THOSE days and feel less than blissful about the relationship. And, of course those days come, whether you want them or not. But, again, WHY DID you marry that person? Think about it. How many potential mates
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Warning: in this article I’m taking a very critical look at conventional self help and professional counseling for troubled relationships. I saw what I perceived to be the demise of the therapeutic community’s capacity to be effective back in the 90’s when I served on the State Board for Marriage and Family Therapy. It was
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The First Radical Unconventional Mind Twisting Step to EASY LOVE …Stop Trying to Fix Your Marriage Don’t dive in! If your marriage is in shambles, broken and and you are emotionally falling apart, don’t… please don’t… jump in and try to fix it. No date nights. No plans for a romantic getaway. No plea for
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I’ve observed thousands of people over my near 30 years of clinical practice as a Marriage and Family Therapist caught in the clutches of martial anxiety, tension and worry. The tension and anxiety that results from the “Force it/Fix it” model you were taught can be paralyzing. And, over time, it becomes more and more
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You search for that “special” relationship. Falling in love means finding that “special” someone who reciprocates that feeling of being “special.” Or, you long to feel “special” in your significant relationship. If you are bored or there is a lull in your relationship you long to make it again “special.” Those cheating on their spouse
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In the professional and self help community it’s commonly understood that your thinking creates reality. What you think about becomes your world. The thoughts in your mind color how you see and experience your world. Your thoughts and those images swirling around those thoughts generate your feelings. You focus (or think) on the ugly and
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I remember one evening sitting on the couch watching Cinderella with my 6 year old granddaughter. She was enthralled with the movie; eyes riveted; heart obviously attached to Cinderella. Then I thought, “What is she learning about relationships, about love and about marriage?” My heart skipped a few beats as I watched the budding “relationship”
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