So, what exactly is the underlying relationship meaning of “I love you but am not in love with you”? And how do you respond when your partner tells you that? This is part 3 of a seven part blog series on the underlying relationship meaning of the words, “I love you but am not in […]
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Should you really start thinking about when to divorce when your partner says that he or she has “fallen out of love” with you? This is the second part in my series of blog posts on the commonly used phrase “I love you but am not in love with You,” which will focus on what
When to Divorce: What’s Love Got to Do with It? Read More »
So, you ask, how can you possibly help me fix my relationship? How do you do more than swallow hard and go into shock when your spouse says, “I love you but am not in love with you anymore?” I will present distinctions and what your confused spouse might REALLY be saying to you,which is
Is it really about saving or ending your relationship with your partner, or do you just want to find a way to resolve the marriage? To resolve the marriage means finding a life-giving, self-respecting, other-respecting avenue to expose the old patterns, undo the old patterns and create new ones that give life, hope, true love
What are the real reasons you have for saving the marriage? When I ask a spouse why he or she wants to save the marriage, I often hear, “Because I love him or her.” And I sometimes respond, “What is it about him or her that you love?” or, “What do you mean that you
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