Level 1: Welcome to Quick Marriage Turn Around
Level 2: Marriage Building Intensive Module
Intermediate Level
Sometimes you scratch your head, “Where did that come from? What was s/he thinking?
Or, you moan, “Here we go again!”
You feel the tension build. You know you are headed for a no win encounter.
The “Relax” segment of the intermediate module helps you reduce the tension by:
- Helping you “see through” your spouse’s behaviors. You come to understand the underlying motives, identify the patterns and thereby are less likely to personalize as a reflection on you.
- Reducing the judgemental and critical thoughts. Many feel incredibly better as you shift the perception of your spouse. And, as a by product, your spouse treats you better.
Reprograming means learning about love and relationships from a new perspective.
An interesting “reframe” is the article on the Sensitive Person.
Marriage and love is not a smooth road. Discover the various critical decision points in a marriage.
8 Critical Keys to Saving a Marriage helps you focus on the essentials of having the marriage and relationship you want.
Dip your toes in the water of reconnecting with your spouse by using the Appting Strategy. See what happens.
Relax
Seeing through your Partner
Creating a Safe Place in your Marriage/Relationship
You cannot love if you fear your other. You cannot love – or receive love – if you are afraid you will be rejected, criticized or fail to measure up to his/her standards of performance. You must experience a degree of safety; that you have a place, a value which cannot be destroyed by your other’s fears and insecurities. This exercise enables you to “see through” your other’s fears and insecurities, to create a safer emotional atmosphere.
Reprogram
The sensitive person
One stuck in a marriage or relationship with abuse, whatever the degree, is often a sensitive person who tries exceedingly hard and cares deeply. This person often tolerates a great deal to make the marriage work. This guide affirms the sensitivity as a gift and offers resources for the sensitive person to tolerate less and speak firmly.
What are my decision points?
Marital stress and the frequency and intensity of a crisis can be lessened once you stand back and view the larger picture of your marital process. Marriages are dynamic – always changing. Being aware, being prepared and acknowledging marital change and questions enables you to better engage your other.
These 8 conditions (the 4 modules help you create) foster the movement from fear to EASY LOVE
To eliminate your fears and tension, Dr. H incorporates 8 critical keys throughout the 3 Modules to help you save your marriage and move more quickly toward EASY LOVE.
Reconnect
You were taught to fear. Your love is smoothened by fear. Discover in this article the 3 Stages of Love: from Romantic Love to Fear-Based Love to EASY Love. Love is natural. Love is a gift.
A Simple 7 Day Strategy to Jump Start Good Feelings
Appting is a 4 – rule process to get your partner’s focused attention without asking, nagging or manipulating. This is for busy couples who text and share a mutual commitment to appreciate each other more deeply.